Wrote to my aunt yesterday


who I haven't talked to in years, which is cray

and embarrassing, because she's blood and family and all that jazz

but life happens and people drift apart

and sometimes we have to take steps to get back together.

Anyway.

I wrote to her today and told her about my life. My friends, my loves, my family, my interests, my failures, my regrets

and she wrote back and said

Alyson, everyone makes mistakes.

which is true and good to remember sometimes. Especially when we're thinking about the mistakes that others have made.

It's easy to forget that we often make them, ourselves, and it's good to be reminded that we all fuck up

we all make mistakes

and that it's okay. As long as we learn from them.